INTRODUCING

HOLY DESIRES

For Catholic Husbands

6 weeks to becoming the lover of her dreams.

Does any of this sound familiar?

These are just some of the common struggles that faithful Catholic married men have shared with me.

Finding the time for sex is really hard. And when we do have sex, it’s late at night and exhausting.

How do I initiate sex?

It seems like my wife never wants sex. It makes me feel unwanted.

I had a promiscuous past and/or used porn. Is that going to cast a shadow over our sex life forever?

How can I help my wife to orgasm?

I have a lower libido than my wife. I feel broken.

If you struggle in your sex life, you are not alone!

But where can you turn for help?

Google it? who knows what will come up.

Secular sources? They don't know or respect the church's teaching (to put it mildly).

And even most Catholic sources addressing sex stop at theological reflections or vague advice.

It's time to have honest, faithful conversations about SEX.

Hi! I'm Nathan.

Happily married for 25 years.

Father of 5 amazing children.

20 years of ministry to engaged and married couples.

In 2020, I co-founded Cana Feast with my wife Sarah, an online Catholic marriage ministry.

Through that work, we realized that there is a huge need for faithful and practical guidance in sex.

My wife Sarah has helped hundreds of women find more pleasure in sex with their husbands in her "My Delight" course. One of the most common questions she gets is: where is the men's version of your course?

In December, 2024, I quit my day-job in big tech to dedicate myself fully to our ministry.