Dealing with
Differences in Desire
A Free, 4-Day Challenge for Catholic Husbands
Join me and a brotherhood of Catholic men as we uncover the real reasons behind differences in sexual desire in marriage, and what to do about it.
March 9 - 12
Live calls @ 6 pm Pacific / 9 pm Eastern
It's not too late to join!
Watch replays of the days you missed to catch up!
What You'll Learn
🔥 Day 1 - You're Not Alone
Almost every couple experiences differences in desire. You'll hear why, and you'll feel the relief of knowing you're not broken and your marriage isn't broken.
🔥 Day 2 - What's Really Going On
We go beneath the surface. You'll learn the real dynamics behind higher and lower desire, and start seeing your sexual relationship through a new lens.
🔥 Day 3 - Quick Wins
Learn 3 practical tools, including one insight about how arousal and desire actually works, that can actually help create the sex life you desire.
🔥 Day 4 - The Road Ahead
We cast a vision for what's actually possible: not just "more sex," but authentic intimacy, deeper communication and mutual desire and pleasure.
Details
Live calls, March 9 - 12
6 pm Pacific / 9 pm Eastern
✅ Join live or watch recordings. Miss a day? No problem!
✅ Join anytime, even if you missed the first calls! The doors are open for you.
✅ Hosted in a private community (not Facebook) No ads. No distractions.
✅ 100% free. No credit card required.
✅ Connect with other Catholic husbands in an real brotherhood of men who care enough about their marriages to show up.
✅ Ask questions. Get answers. You can ask anonymously if you prefer.
Is This For You?
This challenge is for Catholic husbands. Join us if any of these things sound familiar:
You love your wife, but you're frustrated that you can't seem to get on the same page about sex.
You're tried to talk about it, but the conversation always goes sideways or just doesn't happen.
You feel like you're the only Catholic husband dealing with these issues. (You're not.)
You want real, practical guidance rooted in faith, not tips from a magazine or generic platitudes.
You're ready to stop trying to figure this out alone.
March 9 - 12, 2026
Live calls at 6 pm Pacific / 9 pm Eastern
4 live sessions to give you practical guidance for differences in sexual desire with your wife. Sessions are at 6 pm Pacific / 9 pm Eastern.
Recordings of all live sessions are available to everyone who registers.
Ask questions anonymously for advice that speaks directly to your situation.
You want it more. She wants it less.
(Or vice versa.) Now what?
Join the workshop to find out!
It's not too late to join!
Get instant access and watch the replays to catch up.
I'm Nathan Bartel
Husband of 25+ years, father, and founder of Holy Desires, a formation program for Catholic husbands. My wife Sarah and I run Cana Feast, an online ministry helping Catholic marriages thrive. I've worked with men who felt stuck, confused, and alone in their struggles with intimacy, and I've watched real transformation happen when they get the right tools and the right community. This challenge is my way of giving you a real starting point.
